Debi's Newest Book!

Dear Debi! I need your help!! Have you done a study on boys growing up with Mr. command tendencies and if mistreated or misunderstood by parents-the correlation to developing Asberger's, ADHD and ADD? As an unemployed sociologist Ive tried to ask questions of parents (carefully) or observe interaction, and most are in denial of what they are doing wrong. I've checked through countless books on Asberger's etc.. and no inquiries were made if they were firstborns ( all harsh mistakes are done on them) how did the parents treat them. Was the father a Mr. command, was he a marine, was he a perfectionist or the mother and the implications of those realities upon this most likely intelligent, out spoken child.
May I give two examples of my observations of the truth that Asberger's and ADHD was developed from parental mass mistreatment.
My brother-in-law Second born but first son. Raised in a missionary family. Mother was a complete control machine. Told her godly Mr. steady doctor husband what move to make in their 50 yrs. of marriage and dropped dead from a heart attack at 70. Their son who was hyperactive as a baby and young boy was totally controlled and manhandeled by this mother. He wanted the Lord but for 40 years he took mind altering drugs to the chagrin of his mother and father. He had to live with his parents all his life and in and out of jail. His beloved Dad dies, he lived on with this mother and 14 years later which was a year ago she died. He was 50 never married no children.He instantly got his life right with God dropped drugs and now has a ministry in the church picking up bridge people and bums and homeless people to church. He is an accomplished carpenter. From get go his 2 sisters trusted him that he would do right. He was a severe case of ADHD. The big church and Pastor loves him now.
The 2nd was my nephew, labeled by his parents as having Asberger's. He was 1st born to my 7th sibling brother who's a Mr. command! We 5 sisters kissed him and loved him the folks loved him and he never had a harsh word spoken to him. But he was A perfectionist. when that first son was born all hell broke out on that boy. That kid was terrorized into perfection. My sisters and I could not understand why my brother was so HARD on him and made him shut up all the time to be seen and not heard. Well he reminded my brother of himself and didn't want 2 commanders around the house. That boy a Mr. Command now is 24 tall bright red curly hair, handsome but can only wash cars for a living, stutters, and looks horribly insecure. His mind used to be so riveting fast so total recall mind. He is determined to prove to his parents that he doesn't have Asberger's and that he's going to be somebody someday. He loves the Lord dearly.he's got 4 brothers under him and the 6th a sister. They are all studying to be doctors and physicists.
There you go whats your take on this? So sorry this was so long.

5 comments on “Debi's Newest Book!”

Sherry says:

March 12, 2014 at 4:56 pm

I can't wait to read this! I love homeschooling already, but I am looking forward to new fresh ideas!
Jumara English says:

March 13, 2014 at 6:32 am

I have read many of the other books by the Pearls and look forward to this one!
Meredith B says:

March 15, 2014 at 7:26 pm

I am so excited for this book. The Pearls books are fun, creative, and steeped in wisdom! Let's have some fun in our homeschools, for the glory of God!
Mrs. Karen Treadwell says:

November 22, 2014 at 12:21 am

Dear Debi! I need your help!! Have you done a study on boys growing up with Mr. command tendencies and if mistreated or misunderstood by parents-the correlation to developing Asberger's, ADHD and ADD? As an unemployed sociologist Ive tried to ask questions of parents (carefully) or observe interaction, and most are in denial of what they are doing wrong. I've checked through countless books on Asberger's etc.. and no inquiries were made if they were firstborns ( all harsh mistakes are done on them) how did the parents treat them. Was the father a Mr. command, was he a marine, was he a perfectionist or the mother and the implications of those realities upon this most likely intelligent, out spoken child.
May I give two examples of my observations of the truth that Asberger's and ADHD was developed from parental mass mistreatment.
My brother-in-law Second born but first son. Raised in a missionary family. Mother was a complete control machine. Told her godly Mr. steady doctor husband what move to make in their 50 yrs. of marriage and dropped dead from a heart attack at 70. Their son who was hyperactive as a baby and young boy was totally controlled and manhandeled by this mother. He wanted the Lord but for 40 years he took mind altering drugs to the chagrin of his mother and father. He had to live with his parents all his life and in and out of jail. His beloved Dad dies, he lived on with this mother and 14 years later which was a year ago she died. He was 50 never married no children.He instantly got his life right with God dropped drugs and now has a ministry in the church picking up bridge people and bums and homeless people to church. He is an accomplished carpenter. From get go his 2 sisters trusted him that he would do right. He was a severe case of ADHD. The big church and Pastor loves him now.
The 2nd was my nephew, labeled by his parents as having Asberger's. He was 1st born to my 7th sibling brother who's a Mr. command! We 5 sisters kissed him and loved him the folks loved him and he never had a harsh word spoken to him. But he was A perfectionist. when that first son was born all hell broke out on that boy. That kid was terrorized into perfection. My sisters and I could not understand why my brother was so HARD on him and made him shut up all the time to be seen and not heard. Well he reminded my brother of himself and didn't want 2 commanders around the house. That boy a Mr. Command now is 24 tall bright red curly hair, handsome but can only wash cars for a living, stutters, and looks horribly insecure. His mind used to be so riveting fast so total recall mind. He is determined to prove to his parents that he doesn't have Asberger's and that he's going to be somebody someday. He loves the Lord dearly.he's got 4 brothers under him and the 6th a sister. They are all studying to be doctors and physicists.
There you go whats your take on this? So sorry this was so long.
Mrs. Karen Treadwell says:

November 22, 2014 at 12:24 am

Oh please Debi I pray you rec'd my long letter text. When I submitted it, it asked me if I was human oh I pray you got my letter.

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