One day I began to pray for God to open my eyes to His truth and not let me believe any false doctrine/lies I may have believed. To my surprise, I was convicted almost right away in the area of my current marriage of twelve-plus years. We are both divorced from spouses. I was divorced twice before I was 22 years old.
In the last year or so, whenever I have asked God for confirmation, I have been consistently and repeatedly convicted from scripture that my husband and I were never meant to have been married and are, in truth, adulterers.
Our church is not convinced and we have been encouraged, admonished and lectured to continue living as married, even by other Christian leaders to whom I’ve spoken about this issue.
We have two young children and we still live together in separate bedrooms; we have lived like this for about ten months. The scripture the different “churches” use to support a remarriage after divorce are vague. The scripture against remarriage after divorce are not even slightly vague; they are clear and concise.
Reading your marriage stuff makes me emotional; I feel like I’ve only done well ignoring or suppressing any “wife” feelings. Usually I pray that God remove unclean thoughts and feelings from me and I don’t think about the marriage part much at all. Of course there is stress, and tension…well, I’m sure you can guess this has not been smooth sailing.
I’m wondering if you are willing to offer me a glass-full of that vinegar you specialize in — i.e., your thoughts in terms that most sane people would shy away from using — because for some reason I feel compelled to ask for it. Thank you.
— A Concerned Wife
This couple is going to be very happy to read my new book The Bible on Divorce and Remarriage.
Historically, Christians have been divided on the issue of divorce and remarriage, many institutions and theologies coming down on the side that it is adultery to remarry while one’s former spouse is still alive. This is consistent with the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:32, 19:9 and the words of the Apostle Paul in Romans 7:1-3. Others stand by the words of Paul in 1 Corinthians 7:15, 27-28 where he clearly declares that it is not a sin to marry again if you were “put away” (abandoned or divorced) by an unbelieving spouse. There seems to be a conflict in Scripture regarding divorce and remarriage. You do not have to pick a side to the exclusion of the other. There is harmony. In this book you will see Scripture like you never saw it before.
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