Being a good help meet starts long before marriage. It is a mindset, a learned habit, a way of life established as a young unmarried girl—or at least that’s the way it should be. Nearly every wife will confess that the first year or two of married life was—how shall I say it—a frustrating learning experience.

Who Is This Website For?

It is for married and unmarried women who want to know more about being a good help meet. It is for married and unmarried men seeking to discover what it takes to be the man a woman will cherish forever.

What Does This Website Accomplish?

Questions Answered Here
We want to help you prepare for this wonderful time of life by providing a way for you to ask questions and get answers.

Discuss Debi Pearl’s Book
You are also encouraged to use this site to discuss your thoughts on Debi Pearl’s book, Preparing To Be A Help Meet.

Post Your Personal Testimony
Reading about others’ life journeys is a real encouragement and can help us get through tough times ourselves. We have a new Testimonies section where you can post your own life story or love story and share it with others!

Preparing To Be A Help Meet Blog
Occasionally we will have people from our staff and community write blogs on topics of interest to those considering marriage or those who seek to improve or rebuild their marriages.

Personality Types

In her book, Debi Pearl outlines three types of men – the Prophet, the Priest, and the King. Most of the men you meet will demonstrate recognizable qualities from one or more of these types. Debi also introduces three types of women – the Dreamer, the Servant, and the Go-to Gal. You can read about these personality types in detail in the book, or you can visit our Personality Types page for a quick overview.