I am 17 and live in Michigan and here all the girls wear very short shorts and low and tight tops – and I mean everyone, even older women wear shorts or short skirts and in general the modesty standard is very low. Even among the Christians – I go to a pretty conservative church and the girls still dress like everyone else, they maybe have their shorts an inch longer or so but it barely covers a quarter of the thigh. I also went to a missions trip with other teens and again – all short shorts everyday all the time. I am not sure how I should dress since I do want to go with the style but I don’t want to get wrong attention so I was wondering if it is OK to wear shorts and shirts that are less tight and short than what other girls wear (but might be considered immodest in more conservative communities). Since everyone else is wearing less, would that be fine since the guys are used to seeing a lot anyways and showing less (maybe half the thigh) would already be very modest… kinda like wearing a tankini and swim skirt on the beach instead of a bikini… what are your thoughts?