I know this sounds really odd, but I seriously don’t know if I’m a virgin or not. I was abused when very little (before puberty), so I’m inclined to think not. But I’m not sure. And how do I tell the person that I may marry?
Being a good help meet starts long before marriage. It is a mindset, a learned habit, a way of life established as a young unmarried girl—or at least that’s the way it should be. Nearly every wife will confess that the first year or two of married life was—how shall I say it—a frustrating learning experience.