Is it possible to be a servant girl and to be an go-to-gal ? I love helping others and I don’t mind sitting back and letting others take the leadership. However I do have a stubborn streak, and can at times have a contentious spirit. I have to work on having a meek and quiet spirit. I do not think that I am a visionary girl. I do not think that I could marry a steady man, because I like to know what someone expects of me. I do not want to have to guess and try to figure out what someone wants. So I think that I will probably marry a command man, but I am afraid that my sometimes stubbornness and be contentious will get me in trouble with this kind of a man.