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Created to Be His Help Meet

Discover how God can make your marriage glorious
by Debi Pearl
Book – What God is doing through this book is amazing! We are receiving thousands of letters from people giving testimony to marriages restored and old loves rekindled.
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Display Name Created to Be His Help Meet
Subtitle Discover how God can make your marriage glorious
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Product Type Book
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ISBN 978-1-892112-60-6
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Language English
Author Debi Pearl
Manufacturer No Greater Joy Ministries, Inc.
Publication Date Dec 1, 2004
Pages 296
Binding Perfect Paperback
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Other Credits Clint Cearley, cover photo and design, interior design and typesetting; Shoshanna (Pearl) Easling, cover photo model
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5 Reviews
Excellent!, (Posted on 8/9/2012)

By Jim

Was given this book to review by a member in my church, who wanted to use it in a special study for the ladies of our church. Reading through the book, I was so impressed by the scriptural content and the godly advise. Wholeheartedly recommended it for our ladies.

life-changing wisdom, (Posted on 7/3/2012)

By tchrmomto3

Several years ago a dear friend loaned this book to me----I was in shock by its profound wisdom and wondered why I'd never read a book quite like this. Debi Pearl's perspective was biblically based and encouraging. In a nutshell, she promoted unselfishness: if a woman insists upon having her way, even if she's right, she can stay right and lose her husband and possibly her children. Keeping the family together is sometimes a great personal sacrifice, but walking in obedience reaps great blessings. We will reap what we sow, if we will remain faithful. Outstanding wisdom for any generation---if every wife honored her husband and built up her household, satan's plans would certainly fail!

All women should read this book!!, (Posted on 4/29/2012)

By blonde

This is a wonderful book. It can help your marriage no matter what situation you are in. It backs everything up with scripture and you shouldn't agrue with God!!

Outstanding, (Posted on 4/16/2012)

By Evangelia

I'm from Sydney, Australia and I was given this book 'Created To Be His Help Meet' by my Pastors wife. Since reading it I have recommended this book to all my married sisters in Christ. This has got to be the best book on marriage for women I have ever read. It is very convicting and life changing. I absolutely love how Mrs Debi Pearl relates everything back to scripture. I am very critical when it comes to Christian books because of lack of biblical references but Mrs Pearl never let me down. Her godly wisdom and practical real life examples make this book to be treasured above every other book for married women, other than the Bible itself! A must read! Thank you Mrs Pearl for writing such a wonderful and encouraging book! You are a champion! :)

Life changing!!, (Posted on 12/26/2011)

By Sam's Girl

This book is life-changing and a must read for all wives. Mrs. Pearl tells wives straight what the Word of God says. It changed my heart! Most importantly... my husband is sure glad I read it! :)

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Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle.

It took four years, thousands of hours, many tears, revisions and distractions, but I finally finished my book. I had no idea God had so much to say to us ladies until I began going through God’s Word verse by verse, writing the different sections of Created to Be His Help Meet. Many times as I read a passage, I would say to my husband, “I’m not going to include those verses in my book because if I do the ladies (of any religious group you can think of including my own) will not like my book or promote it.” My dear husband would say to me, “If God thought it was important enough to inspire it as part of his Word to us, then you should include it.” And so I would cringe and add one more controversial subject after another.

So in obedience with Titus 2, where God commands the aged women to teach the younger women, I have obeyed and given you the very best I can do – 27 chapters, 296 pages, including letters from my readers, recounting counseling sessions, wisdom gleaned from my daughters, my own very personal stories, and, of course, the Word of God. It includes subjects as varied as planning meals to answering extremely intimate questions.

From the back cover...

Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle.


Created to Be His Help Meet showed me the changes I needed to make in my life that ultimately led my husband to Christ. Created to Be His Help Meet is simply the best book I’ve read in conjunction with the Bible on being a Godly wife.”
~ Candace Cameron Bure, Actress, Author & Speaker, Growing in God Ministries

“When I received your book Created to Be His Help Meet, I literally devoured it! I learned much on how to be a good help meet and about our Christian walk in general. We learned of a couple who separated, the wife was advised to give her husband her terms and basically live without him. I gave her a copy of your book, (she agreed she’d like to read it, having heard of it in the past). I called her one morning and she was an unbelievably changed person! She was ready to fight for her husband and love him. She wants him back desperately! She has realized how wrong she has been and is determined to change. From what ( she’s said) her husband is definitely a Mr. Steady, it sounds like he does want things to work out. I am so thankful for God’s intervention and the change in her heart! It amazes me to think that we so often brush off what God says, thinking we have better ideas.”
~ Laura

“Thank you for sharing your life and heart in Created to Be His Help Meet. Who would have guessed that a trip to the library could totally transform and ignite your marriage? I couldn’t wait to read your book. Instantly I started following your advice. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and had a great relationship, but now it is absolutely incredible.”
~ H.C.

“I am writing to thank you for your book Created to Be His Help Meet. I did not think I needed it because we have a good marriage. Well, I did not realize what I was in for in reading your book and how the Lord would deal with my heart and show me how I was in rebellion to my husband’s authority and how selfish I really was. My husband is elated and is daily praising me as the new wife that he is so pleased with I also had realized that I was resisting him in the sexual area of our relationship, but did not know what to do about it, the Lord did indeed direct me through your book. My husband is a ‘Command Man.’ In fact, he said he is going to command all the men at church to get this book for their wives! Ha! Ha! He made this comment without knowing that you wrote anything about a ‘Mr. Command Man.’ I surely wish I had put these Biblical principles into practice years ago.”
~ C.K.

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Publication Date:
First Printing - December 2004
Second Printing - March 2005
Third Printing (revised) - May 2005
Fourth Printing - September 2005
Fifth Printing - December 2005
Sixth Printing - September 2006
Seventh Printing - April 2007
Eighth Printing - May 2008

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