Hi! I wanted to ask you about an issue that isn’t really vital for me, but I don’t really know how to approach it. Several months ago I started attending some volleyball meetings with a lot of Christian young people in our town. These meetings had a missionary purpose, also, unbelievers were invited to chirch after the game. Anyway, I met a boy there, 6 years older than me (and I am 18) and I really admired him. But I thought he was older and a lot more superior, spiritually speaking, so I prayed for God to keep my heart safe and not let me fall in love and keep me focused on Him. And when the right guy comes, He would open doors. Anyway, after a couple of months, this boy started texting me, and we started talking. I prayed really, really hard for the Lord to not let me say anything wrong and again, to keep my feelings safe. And we talked for two weeks, but we became really close, I was in a kids’ camp as a leader and we shared all kinds of experiences with children and the way his life was changed by God and mine too…and the thing is I knew I loved his godly character and his passionate heart for Jesus, in a way I never did, but I feared that we were getting too close and more than “just friends”, and I didn’t want to give him any hopes. And after two weeks I felt the need to pray for our next conversation and I asked a friend of mine to pray with me, and we both received the same answer, that is to openly tell him that I don’t know where our relationship is going and we need to make some things clear. And he answered me that he had been praying for some time now and that he believes that God wants us to be together, but he is not sure, and he doesn’t want for me to start dreaming or smtg. And we agreed to pray about it and stop talking for the time being. 10 days later he told me that he had a sure answer and that he wanted to talk to my dad (I was still in the camp, 300 km away). And he did, and dad told him that I am too young and that he needs to wait, and stop talking to me or meeting. And he did. But I still prayed for it, and for 2 weeks I had this answer that he is the right guy. And yesterday he wrote me and told me not to worry and to focus on God and that he will not resign but he wants to respect my dad’s choice and our Father’s plan. The thing is, I am sure that he is the boy God wanted to put in my life, he is sure that I am “the one”. But I am 18, he is 24, I still have a year of highschool, and I don’t really know if we should start talking again, given the fact that we are sure that God created us for each other, or wait several years for me to finish college and not talking at all during these years. So, basically, my question is: is a long-term (I’ll finish college in 4 years from now) relationship biblical or should we just wait for me to have a finished education and be completely separate meanwhile? We both want to follow God’s design for our lives, but there are certain things that I feel I cannot have a perspective upon.