Only in recent years have I realized that men do not appreciate the competing attitude in women (thanks to the feminist movement, they really can never win “fairly”), and I’ve had to be very sensitive about this because I came from that fleshy attitude. However, I’m wondering, how far do you take this? I am not considered a very feminine girl (working on it!), and I enjoy playing sports, the law enforcement field, etc. Do guys know when you’re just trying to have fun? How do guys take it when you give them a little competition/enjoy the things people tend to label “masculine”?
-A sister in Christ