Posted February 26, 2014

My name is Elise, and I am hoping someone can help me a little.
(or a lot; ) )

I just want to get a little feed back on this:
How can I please my Dad, mom and brothers and sisters concerning the area of style and dress and other such related things.   One says: wear what you like to wear
One says: I like this on you
Another says:  Wear what is in fashion
The other says: most women look best in this

I want to make them all happy, but for one thing, I do not like all the fashion. Another, for some reason I really want to wear what my dad and brothers like. I have a hard time wearing it if I know that it is not what they really like.   I know I can not please everyone and this bothers me sometimes. If anyone has an idea, I would be glad to hear it.
Thank you!


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  1. Shalom (Staff)

    Well I can tell you right now that you are 100% a servant type girl. You want to please everyone and make everyone happy. That is good and a sweet trait but I want to give you a little insight into the weakness of this type. I am like you, I want to please people! This is not always a good thing though, it is sweet, but it can hurt you. You need to go to God and only learn to please him. Find out what God wants. Look to him in all things, for he will never change and will always be pleased with you. There will be people that come into your life that you will need to not follow or want to please. Learn to be strong and not follow their example. The only way you can do that because of your pleasing others personality is to have a farm foundation in what you know is right and what God says. Use this time to study Gods word and become strong in wisdom and knowledge, so you will not be moved. Love you sweet heart, Shalom

    # March 4, 2014

    • james410 - the author of this post.

      Thank you Shalom! I need to be reminded of this over and over again. I am sure you have had to learn similar things. Thank you for your encouragement. Jesus is so much easier to please then everyone at once in this world…if you understand what I mean.

      # March 8, 2014