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Posted January 9, 2013

There is this guy that I really like. He is 18 and will be graduating this spring. I am 16 and I won’t be graduating for another two years. He is very godly and is so determined in his walk with God. I just love that about him. I know he really likes me also, and he is looking forward to courting me when we are both mature and ready. I just can’t help but worry about the future, about which girls he he going to meet at the Christian college he will be going to, and about if he will indeed wait for me. We both know we are young and that things could very well change for either of us, but it is sooooo hard to trust God! We seem to be made for each other. Everyone who knows both of us just guessed that we liked each other because our personalities are so compatible, and we both are gifted in music and plan to go to college for the same thing (music performance) and I can’t help but think we will end up dating, but I also get sooo worried we won’t! It is really hard to explain I guess, but he is just distracting me so much from God, and the stress about the next two years weighs on me all of the time. Any advice???

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  1. sonnet

    Melody,
    Recently, I went through the same feelings and uncertainity that you are going through now. It can be very hard and an emotional ride, I know. However, you have got to completely rely on God and trust him. He will bring everything to pass in his time and plan. When you place everything in God’s hands and trust that he will bring everything out for His honor and glory, you will get such a peace. Proverbs 3:5-6 Once you give everything to God you will be so much happier. If he is the man for you God will show you in his timing, but for now all I can say is Isaiah 40:31. One more piece of advice is look up all the verses you can find on trusting in the Lord and waiting on the Lord. It truly helps. I hope this helps you. 🙂

    # January 12, 2013