I’m wondering how much lightheartedness is silliness. I’m generally a very outgoing, bouncy, lighthearted person. I’ve been told by one of the girls in my group (who is pretty much a perfect Victorian model child … but never seems to have much fun and is still unmarried at almost 30) that I am silly and I need to pray that God changes me. But I don’t really consider myself silly. I sing and dance all through the house and have no problem laughing and making jokes with friends, but also take glorifying God seriously, and living as spotlessly as I can (not too good at that, but improving) very seriously. But how much lightheartedness is just silliness?