Has anyone had their younger sister marry first? Was it hard for you?
It’s a very real possibility for my younger sister, and while I’m happy for her, it’s kinda hard too, because all she’s ever thought about was music, makeup, clothes and looking good, and never worked much on getting ready for marriage in other ways. And now that she’s in a serious relationship she’s running to me asking me to teach her. The Lord taught me and helped me prepare, so I kinda think why can’t she get ready on her own. She’s the one that wasted time.
I know I shouldn’t feel that way but it just kinda feels unfair. I had a courtship just end a few months ago because I wasn’t “attractive enough” (true story)
I need prayer to guard against bitterness. I know it will be very hard for me. Especially as now I’m back to normal life without any sign whatsoever of another prospect.