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Created to Be His Help Meet

10th Anniversary Edition
by Debi Pearl
Book – Debi Pearl's book for married ladies was first published 10 years ago. In that time Created to Be His Help Meet has blessed many lives and saved countless marriages. Now this wonderful book has been revised, expanded, and updated to be even better. Discover how God can make your marriage glorious!
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Display Name Created to Be His Help Meet
Subtitle 10th Anniversary Edition
Tagline Discover How God Can Make Your Marriage Glorious
Product Type Book
Media Print
ISBN 978-1-61644-075-6
Publication Date Aug 16, 2014
Format No
Language English
Author Debi Pearl
Manufacturer No Greater Joy Ministries, Inc.
Pages 336
Binding Perfect Paperback
Dimensions No
Website No
Other Credits Cover design by Clint Cearley, Lynne Hopwood, Erin Harrison. Cover photos by Erin Harrison. Interior design and layout by Clint Cearley and Erin Harrison.
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5 Reviews
Life changing , (Posted on 7/22/2019)

By Kimmykk

I started a women’s group at church, thinking it was just a women’s group. Come to find out, we were reading your book. At first I was like, “but I’ve been married twice.” It didn’t matter. I follow God‘s instructions, And stayed steady with the class. This book changed my outlook not only on marriage and love, but our family and life. I would recommend this book to any women. Married or not. You’ll be amazed what you discover, not only about your spouse or marriage, but especially about yourself.

I don’t recommend it, (Posted on 11/11/2018)

By Helen

Dear Debby Pearl! One of my friends has just given to me your book. I’m glad I’ve read your book Created to be his help meet because I know now for sure that I will not recommend it to anyone. Don’t get me wrong, we’ve been married for over 10 years and I call my husband Your Honor and Your Majesty and he loves me greatly! I also came from a very loving Christian family where my mom and dad had wonderful relationship with a COMPLETE SUBMISSION on Mom’s part to Dad, and she did it with great joy wholeheartedly. But I know families who, following advices in books like this, completely failed because a husband was put in a place of God. God said:” I’m the Lord and I will not give my glory to anyone.” Also, seems like the author of this book married a pretty decent person at the first place and then gives advices to the wives who are under constant pressure or even attacks from their husbands who are involved in drinking, porn, drugs etc. etc. etc. One lady, whose father was beating her mother every time he was drunk, said:”I wish the author of this book would live in our house for a few years and then write about her experience how to be submissive in everything and joyful as well. It’s great to write books about constant suffering when you are not going through them.” One lady from a conservative church, where ladies respect and honor their husbands, told me that they ordered 2 boxes of these books for their women’s group studies, but when their elders found out what’s written there, they threw all of them in a trash. There’s so much of controversy there in the book itself as well as with the Bible. So, ladies, wives, if you really want to know who and what The Lord created you to be, please refer to Himself, His Word, your husbands (if they are steady in Christ) and other Christians whom you know personalily and see their life in the Lord Jesus according to the Bible. Blessings to you all!

Amazing reading , (Posted on 8/26/2018)

By Joyfulwife

I have given this book out for years! I hunt for used copies always! It has saved my marriage more than once. As a formerly abused women being finally married to a good Christian man, I have a hard time seeing I fit in this marriage. So many times I have wanted to walk away but this book, coupled with a close relationship with Christ has saved me so many times! Praise God for Debi and her wisdom. Buy this book more van once because you will love it so much you will HAVE to share it!

I am not sure that our marriage would have survived without reading the Biblical truths in this book!, (Posted on 10/12/2015)


I was 40 when the Lord allowed my 8 year friendship with a man to become a wonderful courtship and marriage. During our courtship, a dear friend of mine gave me the Helpmeet book and as I read it, my heart resonated with its truths as confirmation of all that I knew that wanted and should be for my husband. It was such an encouragement as I prepared for marriage and I was ready to put it into practice. Then I got married, and although much was wonderful, there were struggles and I went back to the Helpmeet book to now put the Biblical principles into practice daily in reality and not just in my mind. As I read it again the truth taught in it kept me focused on what the Lord needed to change in ME instead of on all that I thought was wrong with my husband. I believe it literally saved our marriage! One part that helped immensely is the types of men Debi describes. When I read the book before I was married, I thought that I was marrying Mr. Steady. But, as I got to know my husband I realized that he is very much a Visionary and the only reason I did not see it much before marriage is that people had squelched this gifting in him and even thought him crazy for this thoughts or actions in situations. As the Lord freed him to be who he was created to be, that visionary part of him came out in full-force. I would have had a much harder time encouraging this gift in him had I not read Helpmeet first! I could literally go on and on about things in the book that have helped me (and what my husband loves about the book) but I will end by saying we give this book out often and I just finished placing another order for 13 more before writing this review. On a side note...we also give out the Preparing to be His Helpmeet books as well and ordered 3 more of those today too!

Life Changing!, (Posted on 8/27/2015)

By Justine

When I first read this book well before I was married I wanted to throw it across the room at times. I had a much different view on marriage after watching my parents divorce and remarry into more unhealthy relationships. But the Lord softened my heart and asked me if I truly believed the Word. Now 4 years into marriage I can honestly say that God's way is WAY better than the worlds! And this book really highlighted and pointed me to the scripture I needed to hear. Thank you for saying the things no one wants to hear for you are truly loving us women by speaking truth!

Full Product Description

10th Anniversary Edition

Created to Be His Help Meet, first published 10 years ago, has sold over 500,000 copies in 12 languages. I am amazed, reading the testimonies of woman in England, India, Saudi Arabia, China, Australia, and many other countries, as they share how their marriages have been saved and enriched through these biblical truths.

Over the years I have learned from these many women, and, responding to their cries for help, have added TWO NEW CHAPTERS and other small revisions to address their needs. One of the new chapters is called, Servant or Servitude? There is a difference. One is godly, the other devilish. Did we fail to make that distinction clear enough the first time around? Some have indicated such. So we tackled the subject head on. May God continue to bless you as you read and obey the wonderful words of God.


Book Description

Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle.

It took four years, thousands of hours, many tears, revisions and distractions, but I finally finished my book. I had no idea God had so much to say to us ladies until I began going through God’s Word verse by verse, writing the different sections of Created to Be His Help Meet. Many times as I read a passage, I would say to my husband, “I’m not going to include those verses in my book because if I do the ladies (of any religious group you can think of including my own) will not like my book or promote it.” My dear husband would say to me, “If God thought it was important enough to inspire it as part of his Word to us, then you should include it.” And so I would cringe and add one more controversial subject after another.

So in obedience with Titus 2, where God commands the aged women to teach the younger women, I have obeyed and given you the very best I can do – 27 chapters, 296 pages, including letters from my readers, recounting counseling sessions, wisdom gleaned from my daughters, my own very personal stories, and, of course, the Word of God. It includes subjects as varied as planning meals to answering extremely intimate questions.

From the back cover...

Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle.


Created to Be His Help Meet showed me the changes I needed to make in my life that ultimately led my husband to Christ. Created to Be His Help Meet is simply the best book I’ve read in conjunction with the Bible on being a Godly wife.”
~ Candace Cameron Bure, Actress, Author & Speaker, Growing in God Ministries

“When I received your book Created to Be His Help Meet, I literally devoured it! I learned much on how to be a good help meet and about our Christian walk in general. We learned of a couple who separated, the wife was advised to give her husband her terms and basically live without him. I gave her a copy of your book, (she agreed she’d like to read it, having heard of it in the past). I called her one morning and she was an unbelievably changed person! She was ready to fight for her husband and love him. She wants him back desperately! She has realized how wrong she has been and is determined to change. From what ( she’s said) her husband is definitely a Mr. Steady, it sounds like he does want things to work out. I am so thankful for God’s intervention and the change in her heart! It amazes me to think that we so often brush off what God says, thinking we have better ideas.”
~ Laura

“Thank you for sharing your life and heart in Created to Be His Help Meet. Who would have guessed that a trip to the library could totally transform and ignite your marriage? I couldn’t wait to read your book. Instantly I started following your advice. My husband and I have been married for 12 years and had a great relationship, but now it is absolutely incredible.”
~ H.C.

“I am writing to thank you for your book Created to Be His Help Meet. I did not think I needed it because we have a good marriage. Well, I did not realize what I was in for in reading your book and how the Lord would deal with my heart and show me how I was in rebellion to my husband’s authority and how selfish I really was. My husband is elated and is daily praising me as the new wife that he is so pleased with I also had realized that I was resisting him in the sexual area of our relationship, but did not know what to do about it, the Lord did indeed direct me through your book. My husband is a ‘Command Man.’ In fact, he said he is going to command all the men at church to get this book for their wives! Ha! Ha! He made this comment without knowing that you wrote anything about a ‘Mr. Command Man.’ I surely wish I had put these Biblical principles into practice years ago.”
~ C.K.

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