Created to Be His Help Meet: 10th Anniversary Edition - Book

Book Description

First written in 2004, this marriage guidebook for women has now sold over 500,000 copies in 12 languages. Women all over the world are seeking biblical counsel on marriage...and finding it, in Created to Be His Help Meet. As each chapter unfolds, you will learn about God's plan for marriage, how to respond in tough situations, how your attitude can have the greatest effect, and how you can possess the true qualities of a Proverbs 31 woman. Created to be His Help Meet is informative, encouraging, and, for many women, life-changing. Order today and discover how God can make your marriage glorious.

From the back:

Somewhere over the passing years and changing culture, women have lost their way. This book is written to lead them back home. Regardless of how you began your marriage or how dark and lonely the path that has brought you to where you are now, I want you to know that it is possible today to have a marriage so good and so fulfilling that it can only be explained as a miracle…

Note from the author:

"I did it! It took four years, thousands of hours, many tears, revisions, and distractions. But I finally finished my book. I had no idea God had so much to say to us ladies until I began going through God’s Word verse by verse and writing the different sections of Created to be His Help Meet. Many times as I read a passage, I would say to my husband, “I’m not going to include those verses in my book because if I do, the ladies (of any religious group you can think of, including my own) will not like my book or promote it.” My dear husband would say to me, 'If God thought it was important enough to inspire it as part of his Word to us, then you should include it.' And so I would cringe and add one more controversial subject after another. So, in accordance with Titus 2, where God commands the aged women to teach the younger women, I have obeyed and given you the very best I can do: 27 chapters and 336 pages, a culmination of letters from my readers, counseling sessions, wisdom gleaned from my daughters, my own very personal stories, and, of course, the Word of God. I give you Created to Be His Help Meet."

Reviews for Created to Be His Help Meet:

Reviewed on January 22, 2026 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Convicting, and will absolutely change your marriage with the help, and guidance of the Lord. Hate to say it, but YOU are most likely the problem." ~Remi

Reviewed on January 17, 2025 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"One of the best books ever written for woman on marriage, I love how Debi encourages woman to rise up above circumstances and challenges in life and become victories! God used "Created to be his helpmeet" to open my eyes to the gospel! A must read for every married woman!" ~Olga

Reviewed on April 3, 2024⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"So much valuable information in this book. I couldn’t put it down. I plan on reading it a few times a year so I make sure I remember everything! I don’t have a bad marriage by any means. But I am always striving to be a better wife, mother, and just a person in general so I decided to give it a read. It’s such an inspiring and convicting book. I feel like my husband and I had a new appreciation for each other after I just started implementing one or two things from it. I would recommend this book to any wife, young or old." ~Hayley

Reviewed on October 25, 2023 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Based on the principles found in the Bible, and specifically Titus, chapter 2, this book changed the way I view marriage. It has blessed my life and therefore my husband’s, too. Some of it may feel old fashioned, but give it a chance! I’m not saying it’s Gospel, but I believe every wife will find at least a gem or two that she can bring into her practice as a wife." ~Apryl

Reviewed on June 30, 2021 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"I've understood my husband so much through reading this." ~H