Preparing to be a Help Meet - Book

Book Description

All of us at one point or another dream of marriage...but we often don't know where to start. Preparing to be a Help Meet is written by best-selling author Debi Pearl. She explores the unique challenges every girl faces when she prepares for a spouse and shares stories from herself and six other women who have navigated the complicated steps of preparation, dating, and marriage. Whether you are a single girl interested in understanding the basics, or married and would like more information, Preparing To Be A Help Meet is a Biblical perspective on the subject, containing powerful testimonies and wisdom.

Don’t miss out on our sequel, Created to be His Help Meet!

This book is a companion to Created To Be His Help Meet.

From the back cover

I can think of nothing I want more than someone to truly love me.
You spend your time pining away for your one true love and suddenly...your married and it is a lot more than you bargained for. Now is the hour you should be preparing to be a wife—a help meet.

Ask yourself:
What does a good guy really look for in a girl?
Are you a Dreamer, Servant, or Go-to Gal?
Do you know how to pray for your man-to-be?
Should you tell a guy you like him?
Can you know God's will in choosing a husband?

Reviews from the Book

Reviewed June 24th ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"This book has shed a whole new perspective on truly "waiting" for the right man in my life to come along. I would recommend this to any girl who is still 'waiting'." ~Steph

Reviewed June 10, 2025 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"I highly recommend this book to any woman who's looking to get married and have a glorious marriage!" ~Kelly O

Reviewed October 2, 2022 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"This book is so helpful, so much wisdom. I wish I had someone to teach me when I was young. Preparing yourself for marriage and choosing wisely is the most important thing you could do!" ~Lisa

Reviewed March 20, 2020 ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"Wonderful book for single women looking to get married. Some may not agree with everything she says because of today's culture and will sum it up as old fashioned, but there is a lot of truth in this book. I say read it for yourself! :)" ~ Jessi

Reviewed January 5, 2020⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
"I was gifted this book after I was engaged, but I completely devoured it. It’s such an awesome book and has so much to help young women! If you have young girls that are close to dating age or even if they are passed that, this is a wonderful book!!" ~Cole

About the Author

Debi and her husband, Michael Pearl, are international best-selling authors. Their books have been translated into over 30 languages worldwide. They author a free bi-monthly magazine called No Greater Joy which explores child training, marriage, Bible teaching, and Christian lifestyle.