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Carly
Bethany Ouch. That was really misleading of him to buy you chocolate and…
Elizabeth
Kait A few months ago, I had to try to tell a guy that I was not inte…
Bethany
Bethany I think a good time to accept that fact would be RIGHT NOW. As s…
Abby
Emily S. Say a quick prayer before you begin the task. Ask the Lord to h…
marie For me personally, setting time limits or very short goals reall…
CJ Play soft music. That sometimes helps me.
Bethany
Naomi Bethany... YOU NEED TO LET GOD DO IT. Hudson Taylor, missionary …
Bethany
Erica Ann Plan a get together at your local park or church grounds. You ca…
Kat What about planning a picnic in the park? Or a get-together at c…
Janelle Plan a picinic at the park! :)
Rebecca H. You have lots of friends, so I would suggest asking one of them …
Rosalie
Erica Ann Who would be a better person to ask than your dear father's wife…
Abby I second CJ's reply. It's so nice that your man wants to ask pro…
Janelle Good question. Were I in that situation I'd say he needed to ask…
Annie I would suggest your mother, since she's probably the closest to…
CJ Maybe both, but definitely your mother. :) Congratulations, btw!…
Beth
Kelsey Marie My mom and some several other ladies decided to start a Keepers …
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Beth I've always felt that if you're not ready to get married then da…
anonymous You're in 6th grade?! You don't even need a boyfriend, much less…
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Laura C. I don't know if you should tell him or not. I would just say th…
CJ Tell him. Don't ever keep anything from your husband.
 
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Thankful
Friday, May 18th, 2012 11:59 am GMT -6
Does a clean Website for News exsist?

I used to read the Fox news website, but it had super trashy ads at the bottom, so I wrote them an email :) That was months ago, I checked it today and it seems okay. Yahoo news is filthy and even CNN can have some trash.

Anyone… show more »

Lauren
Friday, May 18th, 2012 11:55 am GMT -6
How does a girl make friends with a guy she likes?

I would like to get to know a young man better, but I am also interested in him as more than a friend. Should I try to forget about him and just pray that God would help to stop thinking about him? I just don’t know how to let… show more »

Abby
Friday, May 18th, 2012 11:54 am GMT -6
Life Purpose?

Being 14 years old, and in 8th grade, I feel like I have no life purpose. I go school, and I come home, do homework, and that’s pretty much my life. How can I serve God, while being a young teenager? What is my purpose in life?

AJ
Tuesday, May 15th, 2012 10:17 am GMT -6
How to live happily when the standards drop?

Does anyone have advice on how to live happily with your spouse when they allow their standards to drop? If you have lived for many years where Godly standards were kept, and now find that your spouse no longer wants to live by these standards and has set the… show more »

Julia
Tuesday, May 15th, 2012 09:55 am GMT -6
Help me!

I have a really hard time not being attracted to boys. It seems like any boy I see I am attracted to. I don’t know what to do about it, because even if I just catch them glancing at me, then I find myself imagining that they like me…. show more »

Anonymous
Tuesday, May 15th, 2012 09:25 am GMT -6
What do I do when friends suggest guys?

This is not just friends my age suggesting a ‘boyfriend’ to me. These friends know how I feel about not dating and staying pure for my one and only man- my husband!

The thing is that this guy is a distant relative of her’s and she keeps telling… show more »

South
Tuesday, May 15th, 2012 09:20 am GMT -6
Menopause

Have any of you ladies gone through menopause, and can you tell me the emotional and physical struggles that may come with it?

South
Thursday, May 10th, 2012 08:56 am GMT -6
Gettin’ Ansty!

Sweet man and I have been together for 3 years, and we both know we are “the one” for each other, but right now is just not THAT TIME. It’s hard knowing we need to wait for who knows how long and all we really want is just to… show more »

Kristyn
Thursday, May 10th, 2012 08:45 am GMT -6
Get Up and Go

Dear Ladies at NGJ,
I am a gal that craves stability and cleanliness, and I like the environment it brings. But every little while I fall off the band wagon and and I need ‘Umph!’ to get up and go. What type of schedule motivates you, and what do… show more »

Elle
Thursday, May 10th, 2012 08:43 am GMT -6
How do i prepare to be a Godly wife?

Hello, I have met a man at church (not my home church). His name is Charles and i really like him and I do believe he likes me too. I have been liking him for over a year but have been praying for him faithfully for 8 months. I… show more »

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Single women working outside the home
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Just meant to be single?
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