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Centered around Debi Pearl’s book, Preparing To Be A Help Meet, the purpose of this website is to help answer any questions you have about the book, personality types, marriage and marriage preparation, meeting the right person, etc.

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happykoalakatie I would say to keep your conversation on the Lor…
Allie
Allie Thank you all for your answers!! It's interestin…
daddysgirlleh Hi Shalom! I really like the list you gave of c…
smartcookie Hi Shalom, Wow - thanks for your list of the v…
Shalom I mean {a first born}, My kids were talking to m…
Shalom Kingsdaughter was right, I would say you are a D…
pumpkindoodle
daddysgirlleh Hey there! That is a really good question, and …
pumpkindoodle
Shalom I say, be safe and just always be careful!
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daddysgirlleh Thanks so much for your reply!! I appreciate it …
thankfulwifey My husband fell for me when I had the shortest h…
raggedycottagegarden It can stir up "sexual" feelings may be......but…
thefarmersdaughter
james410 i can not speak from experience but i can tell y…
katherinduq
Shalom What we think is God's will, is not always God's…
wildrose24
thankfulwifey This might sound like a cop out to some…but co…
raggedycottagegarden If you do not have the heart to be with a certai…
Shalom Steady guys always like GO-to-Girls it seems. Th…
inny
thankfulwifey Remember, even if someone has "nibbled your choc…
raggedycottagegarden I agree with Shalom touch of a woman can lead to…
Shalom Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto …
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Shalom Thankyou for sharing this with us. Shalom
 
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smile
Thursday, April 17th, 2014 10:27 pm GMT -6
What Kind of Girl Am I ?

Hi,

Is it possible to be a servant girl and to be an go-to-gal ? I love helping others and I don’t mind sitting back and letting others take the leadership. However I do have a stubborn streak, and can at times have a contentious spirit. I have to work… show more »

smile
Thursday, April 17th, 2014 10:27 pm GMT -6
How to Prepare to Marry a Command Man

Hi there,

I am a servant girl with a tad bit of visionary. I am looking for ways that I can prepare to marry a kingly man. I could use any suggestions. Thanks!!

Sarah Lee
Thursday, April 17th, 2014 10:26 pm GMT -6
Magazine for Christian Girls

Hi Ladies,

My family publishes a quarterly magazine for Christian young ladies, called “The King’s Blooming Rose,” (http://kingsbloomingrose.com) which contains articles, personal testimonies, poems, pen-pal ads, and much more. Yesterday, I was talking with Shalom (she is so sweet!), and she suggested I share the information for KBR with you… show more »

psalm139
Monday, March 31st, 2014 11:30 pm GMT -6
Losing Close Friend Due to Marriage?

Hi!

I just got married recently, and I have an odd question that maybe you all can help me with.

I have a friend who was interested in the man who is now my husband. What happened was kind of like this: we were all friends, then she started liking him… show more »

hna355
Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 06:24 pm GMT -6
Premarital Sex

In 1 Corinthians 6:16 says that he which is joined with a harlot is one flesh…my question is if you have sex with your fiancé does that mean you are one In Gods eyes… I feel like you are but others I’ve talked to says no. So I need… show more »

prairiemaiden
Thursday, March 13th, 2014 10:40 pm GMT -6
Homeschool Alumni

Are any of you on the Homeschooling Alumni? I just joined and am already enjoying meeting more homeschoolers and fellow believers!
For those of you who haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link: http://www.homeschoolalumni.org/index.php

fireflies
Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 08:05 pm GMT -6
Cultivating Friendship

At 23 years of age, I am in a relationship with a Christian man with whom I have been acquainted for a year. We realize the importance of basing our relationship on sound communication and friendship. May I hear some stories of how you developed these before and after marriage?

ruxi
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:37 pm GMT -6
How Do I Wait and Honour the Lord Through My Waiting?

Hi there! To make a long story short, for the past few months God showed me clearly the boy He wants me to marry to. We talked about it and he is sure that i am the girl for him too. Fact is, I am 18 and still a… show more »

tasha
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:37 pm GMT -6
Meek and Quiet Spirit

Thank you for offering us the chance to ask questions. I don’t normally do this, but I see the wisdom in asking. I am between a rock and a hard place. I wish we could sit and I could explain this story to you detail after detail. I remember… show more »

smokinguns
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:37 pm GMT -6
How to Guard My Heart??

I am eighteen years old, the oldest of eight. Until I was sixteen I was very committed to saving my heart and purity for marriage, and when the time was right, a godly young man would potentially approach my father and I would court-with the intention of marriage.

in the… show more »

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How to Meet Godly Young Men??
» cfaith
Posted Wednesday, June 5th, 2013 08:02 am GMT -6. Last reply was February 11 by Shalom.
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Is Joking/picking O.k.?
» dottie
Posted Thursday, April 25th, 2013 07:13 am GMT -6. Last reply was February 27 by james410.
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Mission Work
» kingsdaughter7
Posted Wednesday, May 22nd, 2013 08:10 am GMT -6. Last reply was March 19 by Allie.
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What to Do if Your Husband Acts Like a Child?
» ang3lblu
Posted Monday, June 10th, 2013 11:30 am GMT -6. Last reply was February 21 by thankfulwifey.
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Is It Right to Show Admiration?
» dottie
Posted Friday, May 24th, 2013 09:13 am GMT -6. Last reply was February 11 by Shalom.
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Biblical Divorce?
» sunflower
Posted Monday, June 24th, 2013 08:46 am GMT -6. Last reply was January 13 by burkeygirl4jesus.
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What Type of Girl Am I?
» Allie
Posted Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 06:24 pm GMT -6. Last reply was April 4 by Allie.
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Natural Family Planning
» akiteinthesky
Posted Thursday, April 25th, 2013 07:14 am GMT -6. Last reply was May 31 by sbalia.
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How to Be Loving and Friendly Even when You Don’t Approve of Someone’s Actions
» sunflower
Posted Thursday, April 25th, 2013 07:14 am GMT -6. Last reply was May 16 by blackwhitedenim.
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God May Forget Me?
» lisa
Posted Tuesday, May 28th, 2013 10:48 am GMT -6. Last reply was February 11 by Shalom.
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