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Centered around Debi Pearl’s book, Preparing To Be A Help Meet, the purpose of this website is to help answer any questions you have about the book, personality types, marriage and marriage preparation, meeting the right person, etc.

You can ask questions, find answers, learn about the book, meet the author, and more!

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psalm139
swifttohear Let her cut herself off. She needs time to heal.…
smartcookie
happykoalakatie I would say to keep your conversation on the Lor…
Allie
Allie Thank you all for your answers!! It's interestin…
daddysgirlleh Hi Shalom! I really like the list you gave of c…
smartcookie Hi Shalom, Wow - thanks for your list of the v…
Shalom I mean {a first born}, My kids were talking to m…
Shalom Kingsdaughter was right, I would say you are a D…
hna355
Marie I hope that it's not too late for a reply, but I…
pumpkindoodle
daddysgirlleh Hey there! That is a really good question, and …
pumpkindoodle
Shalom I say, be safe and just always be careful!
daddysgirlleh
daddysgirlleh Thanks so much for your reply!! I appreciate it …
thankfulwifey My husband fell for me when I had the shortest h…
raggedycottagegarden It can stir up "sexual" feelings may be......but…
thefarmersdaughter
james410 i can not speak from experience but i can tell y…
katherinduq
Shalom What we think is God's will, is not always God's…
wildrose24
thankfulwifey This might sound like a cop out to some…but co…
raggedycottagegarden If you do not have the heart to be with a certai…
Shalom Steady guys always like GO-to-Girls it seems. Th…
 
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Hannah
Thursday, April 17th, 2014 10:27 pm GMT -6
What Kind of Girl Am I ?

Hi,

Is it possible to be a servant girl and to be an go-to-gal ? I love helping others and I don’t mind sitting back and letting others take the leadership. However I do have a stubborn streak, and can at times have a contentious spirit. I have to work… show more »

Hannah
Thursday, April 17th, 2014 10:27 pm GMT -6
How to Prepare to Marry a Command Man

Hi there,

I am a servant girl with a tad bit of visionary. I am looking for ways that I can prepare to marry a kingly man. I could use any suggestions. Thanks!!

Sarah Lee
Thursday, April 17th, 2014 10:26 pm GMT -6
Magazine for Christian Girls

Hi Ladies,

My family publishes a quarterly magazine for Christian young ladies, called “The King’s Blooming Rose,” (http://kingsbloomingrose.com) which contains articles, personal testimonies, poems, pen-pal ads, and much more. Yesterday, I was talking with Shalom (she is so sweet!), and she suggested I share the information for KBR with you… show more »

prairiemaiden
Thursday, March 13th, 2014 10:40 pm GMT -6
Homeschool Alumni

Are any of you on the Homeschooling Alumni? I just joined and am already enjoying meeting more homeschoolers and fellow believers!
For those of you who haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link: http://www.homeschoolalumni.org/index.php

fireflies
Tuesday, March 4th, 2014 08:05 pm GMT -6
Cultivating Friendship

At 23 years of age, I am in a relationship with a Christian man with whom I have been acquainted for a year. We realize the importance of basing our relationship on sound communication and friendship. May I hear some stories of how you developed these before and after marriage?

ruxi
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:37 pm GMT -6
How Do I Wait and Honour the Lord Through My Waiting?

Hi there! To make a long story short, for the past few months God showed me clearly the boy He wants me to marry to. We talked about it and he is sure that i am the girl for him too. Fact is, I am 18 and still a… show more »

tasha
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:37 pm GMT -6
Meek and Quiet Spirit

Thank you for offering us the chance to ask questions. I don’t normally do this, but I see the wisdom in asking. I am between a rock and a hard place. I wish we could sit and I could explain this story to you detail after detail. I remember… show more »

tasha
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:36 pm GMT -6
Oh Boy

My friend is a wonderful man of God. I met him almost a year ago at bible study on base where we work. We are both in the military. He and I connected immediately. Everything between us was Godly and good and right. We started to be tempted physically… show more »

kingsdaughter7
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:36 pm GMT -6
Don’t Know What to Do…help, Please?

Hey everyone :) So.. here’s a little background information. There’s this guy at our youth group who started coming to your church a couple months ago. He’s about 18. He’s really a GREAT guy, friends with everyone and he’s growing in his faith. He is my best guy friend. BUT!, I don’t consider him… show more »

maidenfaire
Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:36 pm GMT -6
Has Anyone Read “fascinating Womanhood?”

I’m wondering, has anyone read “Fascinating Womanhood” be Helen Andelin, and what did you think of it?

It has many of the same Biblical trues as Debi Pearl’s book, in that you must be in submission to your husband,  however, it was written by a Mormon.

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What Type of Girl Am I?
» Allie
Posted Wednesday, March 19th, 2014 06:24 pm GMT -6. Last reply was April 4 by Allie.
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Is Romance in Dating a Sin?
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He Watches Porn
» liana00michelle
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What to Do with My Life???
» sonnet
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How Do I Let Him Know I Don’t Like Him Anymore?
» wildrose24
Posted Friday, February 28th, 2014 09:27 am GMT -6. Last reply was March 24 by thankfulwifey.
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What About Earrings and Makeup?
» daddysgirlleh
Posted Friday, March 7th, 2014 06:28 pm GMT -6. Last reply was March 19 by daddysgirlleh.
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How Can I Please the Whole Family?
» james410
Posted Wednesday, February 26th, 2014 03:57 pm GMT -6. Last reply was March 8 by james410.
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Does an Immodest Culture Allow for Less Modesty?
» smileyo0
Posted Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:35 pm GMT -6. Last reply was July 7 by 1butterflykisses.
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To Wear, or to Not Wear?
» argirl
Posted Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:36 pm GMT -6. Last reply was May 5 by kingsdaughter7.
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Facebook Help
» swifttohear
Posted Monday, February 24th, 2014 04:37 pm GMT -6. Last reply was March 23 by swifttohear.
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