Female Use Of Porn

Historically we have thought of porn consumption as solely a male vice. The inaccuracy of that is now obvious. The so-called soft science of psychology has provided us with a surprisingly updated insight into the nature of porn use among girls and women. However, there is a very obvious difference between the kinds of porn males and females prefer.

It is easy to define porn use by men. Males are wired in their brains to be visual. All normal men respond to the bodies of women just walking down a street, on a billboard, in a media ad or pictures in magazines, women stripping on a stage, videos in movies, and now the visual stimulation of HD pornography and developing augmented reality.

The male drive is something I am not sure any woman understands. In contrast to women, the male desire to view pornographic images is not linked to relationships, love, friendship, or even liking the female as a person. Some men find cartoon porn equally provocative, and it’s not even a person, just another man’s imagination expressed in a computer program. Men don’t use modern porn as an extension of their sexual drive for female companionship. Modern porn means something different than the old Playboy-type pinup pictures so prominent in the Second World War and the fifties and sixties. That porn was an extension of their drive to be with their lovers back home. Not so anymore. Porn is no longer tied to natural drives that involve personal relationships. It is on a different plane altogether—a much lower plane, closer to hell.

The reason men do not see porn as cheating on their spouses is because it is so impersonal, not being linked to their sexual drive for female intimacy. Though in time it will come to take the place of real relationships, and even render them impossible.

The use of porn does not bring satisfaction; it is just an itch that requires regular scratching and will in time leave the flesh insensitive to the real touch of a loving woman. Men participating in a healthy, moral, intimate relationship have a limited sexual capability that is fully satisfied for a time, but porn never brings satiation. A man starts out using porn and ends up being used by it.

Women are different from men in that they are not as visual. Many women are given to porn and may not know it. A female’s porn is often found on the pages of a book expressed in words and not pictures. For years, before women were exposed to printed or video porn, they indulged their erotic imaginations through romance novels, many of which contained descriptive eroticism. Psychologists and sex therapists (whatever that is) reveal that women prefer their erotic words or images linked to their romantic drives. They want them in the context of relationships. And to them it is not porn.

Women will watch movies that have explicit sexual scenes linked to a romantic story and not think of it as porn because it involves deep feelings. Nor are they offended if their husbands view the porn scenes with them. But if the scene were removed from the story line and they caught their husband viewing it, they would be highly offended that he was watching “sinful porn.”

The man doesn’t need the story line or the romance to make visual scenes provocative. The porn is sufficient without context, whereas the woman wants romantic context for her porn, and in her mind that somehow makes it less porn-like.

Human sexuality is a gift from God, and in a context of love and commitment it is the closest thing to heaven found on earth—other than pure personal worship. However, Satan is in all erotic stimulating literature and images, knowing it is possibly the biggest door to damnation and the path of no return for men and women alike. Satan is a defiler, and nothing so deeply defiles the flesh and conscience as porn.

Men, I implore you, don’t destroy your natural erotic nature with artificial eroticism disconnected from a pure relationship of caring. Women, don’t be Satan’s fool in thinking your minds and souls are not being made putrid when you read or watch sexually provocative words and images produced by a class of defiled, broken, loveless human beings working their way to hell while they profit from your lust and pass on the godless carnality of their degenerate ways.

When the mothers are defiled, the nation is defiled and there is no return.

“Unto the pure all things are pure: but unto them that are defiled and unbelieving is nothing pure; but even their mind and conscience is defiled. They profess that they know God; but in works they deny him, being abominable, and disobedient, and unto every good work reprobate” (Titus 1:15–16).

“Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things” (Philippians 4:8).