Pornography—Road to Hell

WARNING This article contains information targeting married couples and mature teenagers. You should read it first and then decide if you want your children to read it. Be prepared to answer their questions. Dear Debi, My husband and I have been married for 14 years. During those years my husband has back-sliden several times. During those times he was involved in pornography. For the last nine months he has been praying and reading the Word, fellowshipping, leading devotionals with the family, and serving where he was needed at church. We were growing closer together everyday as a couple and as… Read More
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Leaving and Cleaving

Leaving and Cleaving

Michael Pearl

Dear Pearls, I have struggled to have a relationship with my mother-in-law since I met her. She tends to be manipulative, unkind, and judgmental.

February 2012
Excerpts from Created to NEED a Help Meet

Excerpts from Created to Need a Help Meet

Michael Pearl

Men were created with a need for a helper, a best friend, an encourager and a lover. Read these passages from Michael Pearl’s book about how to gain a happy wife, God’s favor and eternal rewards.

December 2011
Young husband and wife

I Need Her Counsel and Judgment

Michael Pearl

This excerpt from Created to NEED a Help Meet outlines ways a wife enriches her husband with counsel, encouragement and prayers. Michael Pearl urges men to benefit from those gifts.

October 2011

Learning to Become a Multi-Colored Girl

Debi Pearl

The values of popular society are often at odds with a woman’s calling to fashion herself and adapt to her husband’s changing needs. A willingness to be flexible can help a young woman Preparing to Be a Help Meet.

August 2011
Young husband asleep on leather couch

Lazy Husbands, Hungry Kids and Hopeful Wives

Michael Pearl

Facing homelessness, a concerned mother of toddlers asks what her response should be to a husband that stays on the computer, sleeps and leaves bills unpaid. Michael Pearl examines the circumstance in light of Scripture.

February 2011
Little boy who looks exasperated

Preparing for His Obsession

Shalom (Pearl) Brand

Benefit from the experience of wives that have learned to adapt as their husbands become obsessed with an all-consuming project. Discover how to keep things in perspective and enjoy the journey.

February 2011
Older man hauling big freshly caught fish


Debi Pearl

Men are a different sort of people that are very hard for us more emotionally-balanced females to understand. To prove this statement I would like to bring to your attention one very bad male quirk. They become obsessed with…

December 2010
Dark haired dark eyed tan skinned young woman wearing sparkling headband holding up her wedding dress before a mirror preparing to be a help meet

Preparing to Be a Help Meet—NEW BOOK!

Debi Pearl

Being a good help meet starts long before marriage. It is a mindset, a learned habit, a way of life established as a young unmarried girl—or at least that’s the way it should be.

February 2010
Young Woman

What I Want in a Guy!

A Young Woman

I am a 22-year-old girl who has met and seen my fair share of couples. I’ve traveled a good bit and lived with/helped out different families doing mission work.

June 2009
Young man looking up to his left, thinking

What I Am Looking for in a Wife

A Young Man

The most attractive women I’ve met are those who are satisfied where they are, yet are open for more of what God has for them. This is a freedom only God can give.

June 2009