You do not need to help him. You are not his help meet. God is able to work in his life far better than a mere mortal like you or I could. Focus your talents on yourself, and your ministry. You sound like a wonderful gal with a heart for Jesus, but sometimes correcting people over trivial matters is hurtful. Also, you are a woman, and not an elder, you need not impart your wisdom on someone who is not related to you. God worked through Moses who claimed he was slow in speech/ God may give him a man to be his friend and helper in the ministry, Aaron helped moses, not their sister. Great job working in many ministries, though! I hope that your pro-life club can do outreach to help poor mothers in need. There is a pro-life organization in my area that provides through donations clothes, diapers, furniture, and Biblical love and support to mommies who need love raising babies. What a blessing you are going to be to others! Just worry about yourself and helping others by giving praise of their good deeds, and help to the poor! God bless. I hope you post all the good charities you and your sisters do in the pro-life club to show that Christians not only talk the talk, but walk the walk and help others who are in great need of compassion and the example of Jesus.