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Hannah April 17, 2014
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How to Prepare to Marry a Command Man
Hi there,
I am a servant girl with a tad bit of visionary. I am looking for ways that I can prepare to marry a kingly man. I could use any suggestions. Thanks!!
Hi there,
I am a servant girl with a tad bit of visionary. I am looking for ways that I can prepare to marry a kingly man. I could use any suggestions. Thanks!!
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Sarah Lee April 17, 2014
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Magazine for Christian Girls
Hi Ladies,
My family publishes a quarterly magazine for Christian young ladies, called “The King’s Blooming Rose,” (http://kingsbloomingrose.com) which contains articles, personal testimonies, poems, pen-pal ads, and much more. Yesterday, I was talking with Shalom (she is so sweet!), and she suggested I share the information for KBR with you… show more »
Hi Ladies,
My family publishes a quarterly magazine for Christian young ladies, called "The King's Blooming Rose," (http://kingsbloomingrose.com) which contains articles, personal testimonies, poems, pen-pal ads, and much more. Yesterday, I was talking with Shalom (she is so sweet!), and she suggested I share the information for KBR with you all.
The majority of KBR's readers are ages 12-25, although younger and older women alike write for it. Articles in each issue address issues and struggles that we as young ladies commonly face. If you are looking for encouragement in your walk with the Lord, in your calling of preparing to be a keeper at home, or would simply like to meet other like-minded young ladies, please join us on our journey to Biblical womanhood! You can subscribe at http://kingsbloomingrose.com/kbrmagazine.html.
The Lord bless you, ladies!
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prairiemaiden March 13, 2014
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Homeschool Alumni
Are any of you on the Homeschooling Alumni? I just joined and am already enjoying meeting more homeschoolers and fellow believers!
For those of you who haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link: http://www.homeschoolalumni.org/index.php
Are any of you on the Homeschooling Alumni? I just joined and am already enjoying meeting more homeschoolers and fellow believers!
For those of you who haven't seen it yet, here's the link: http://www.homeschoolalumni.org/index.php
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fireflies March 4, 2014
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Cultivating Friendship
At 23 years of age, I am in a relationship with a Christian man with whom I have been acquainted for a year. We realize the importance of basing our relationship on sound communication and friendship. May I hear some stories of how you developed these before and after marriage?
At 23 years of age, I am in a relationship with a Christian man with whom I have been acquainted for a year. We realize the importance of basing our relationship on sound communication and friendship. May I hear some stories of how you developed these before and after marriage?
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ruxi February 24, 2014
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How Do I Wait and Honour the Lord Through My Waiting?
Hi there! To make a long story short, for the past few months God showed me clearly the boy He wants me to marry to. We talked about it and he is sure that i am the girl for him too. Fact is, I am 18 and still a… show more »
Hi there! To make a long story short, for the past few months God showed me clearly the boy He wants me to marry to. We talked about it and he is sure that i am the girl for him too. Fact is, I am 18 and still a high-schooler, and he is 24, having his own job. He asked my dad for his permission to date with me two months ago and my father told him to wait for another 4-5 years, until I finish college, and stop talking to me or meeting whatsoever until then. We didn't talk or meet purposely during these two months and we agreed that we want to respect my father's decision and God's plan for us and wait for now. My question is: how do I actually focus on my relationship with the Lord without thinking about this boy, and how do i keep myself balanced these years of waiting? Oh, and there's another problem: he is baptist, and I am from the brethren. The differences of doctrine between our churches are quite big and I don't really know what to do: I do not know if he is willing to leave his, and I am not sure I am willing to give up some of my Bible principles. So...?
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tasha February 24, 2014
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Meek and Quiet Spirit
Thank you for offering us the chance to ask questions. I don’t normally do this, but I see the wisdom in asking. I am between a rock and a hard place. I wish we could sit and I could explain this story to you detail after detail. I remember… show more »
Thank you for offering us the chance to ask questions. I don't normally do this, but I see the wisdom in asking. I am between a rock and a hard place. I wish we could sit and I could explain this story to you detail after detail. I remember it well and it is still a healing wound. However, my God is a great physician and He heals what we can't. He heals what we deserve to have hurt. What grace. I don't ever know where to start, but starting somewhere is a good idea.
I am a Sailor. But I am a Christian first. I have only been in the navy for 1 year and 7 months. I really enjoy my job. I am in the Ceremonial Guard in Washington DC. What an absolute honor, and it was given to me by God as a wonderful surprise.
When I arrived in DC after boot camp, I was alone. I don't know how many Christians have ever felt that kind of loneliness. In fewer words than I want to use, God started showing me awesome witnessing opportunities. He gave me a church. He gave me Christian sisters. In a command of 350 (at our top number) we still only had 20 girls in the command. And of those 20, I only saw 7 on a weekly basis. None of which talked about God, let alone wanted to talk with me about him. I was as alone as I had ever been in my life. Yet, I knew I was in the will of God. I was humbled knowing God had put me of all people here as a light for Him. I don't know why God chose me...but I saw amazing things happen even in my loneliness. It can ware on a person to have no one. I didn't even have a phone for the first 6 months.
I began to pray for a friend here where I work--a CHRISTIAN friend. I began praying specifically. For a Christian friend with whom I could pray for the lost here, who would work with me to reach them. I didn't care if it was a guy or girl. I didn't want just any saved Christian, I wanted a serious, God-respecting, Bible-studying Christian who would help me grow and fill my need for a friend.
October 2nd of 2012, God answered my prayer. I almost cried in front of HIM. I had never, and still have not met a man yet, in my life, who is like him. I have no words to describe the amazement I still feel when I think about how God had so perfectly given and surpassed my request. He not only met my request for a friend, but for a man I see as a marriage partner.
There's not enough space in this box today to go into that story, so I will pass over it because I still have questions and I still pray and have to trust God in my confusion in it.
My brother is a man who believes in the inerrent word of God. He applies everything that he reads in the bible to his daily life. I couldn't believe how natural it was for me to fall into service to him when we began talking and spending time with each other. My role as a woman became real. But it wasn't until we had decided to step away from each other in January (because of growing temptation) that I realized later in February just how much I didn't know about my role as a woman.
I work in a thrift shop on base. I found a book called "Feminine Appeal." This book struck me right away. As I looked at the cover, I realized that this was something I had never put time into studying. I had the world's understanding of just "go into marriage and don't make the mistakes your parents made." Well, needless to say, this struck an interest in me. I started reading so much more than I had ever read before. After I finished feminine appeal, I read: "The meaning of marriage," "created...," "preparing...," "let me be a woman," "To train up a child," and "rock solid kids." Plus some others that I had read while I was alone, also along the same category.
He and I, through God's grace ALONE, have had reconciliation for the most part. He and I work together. In our job, I was his trainer for a long time. I had the opportunity to become what we call a "PC." This is the highest honor one can have in our company platoon called "colors platoon." It's really the highest, surprisingly, I'll ever achieve in the navy at this rank. It's amazing. However, I came to the realization that women were not made to lead men. My brother never once told me what I should and shouldn't do according to the bible. He was very respectful of me making my own decisions. He never gave his own two-cents about my position unless I asked. One day, it just struck me that that was not a position for a woman of God, but a man of God. We had decided long ago, not to give each other tests-for fear that it would look like conflict of interest. So, If I made PC, he would not. If He made PC, it would be because I gave it to him.
He made PC two weeks ago. And what an honor it is to see my Christian brother leading the carnal with an amazing testimony of God. It's a privilege to serve just below him lifting his career up and making it possible for him to succeed. I love him dearly, and though for now, God has put space between us, we are still working together well. Satan likes to pull at my heart strings throughout the week because everything I admire about him, just gets better. Save a few parts that I'm watching right now.
So, all this to say, as a trainer and an authority figure to some extent over many men who do respect me, and having the greatest desire to build my talents and abilities in "preparing to be a help meet," how on earth can I possibly show love and reverence and respect, while also showing meekness and QUIETNESS and wax softly in a place that demands all the opposite???!!! I wish I could fly you here to visit. I wish I could show you around and introduce you to my life. God has me here for a purpose and I'm not done yet. I can see that God has put a burden on me and somehow my brother is a huge part of my life, and might be one day in the future. But that is not clear right now. What matters is that I can somehow serve my brother and the other men as they aught to be served whether or not they are saved, so I can practice humility no matter the return, in a place that has me leading them! This is so incredibly difficult. I have to figure out every day, nearly every hour how to be both and glorify God in it. Sometimes it is so stressful that I fail in representing God because of the busyness mixed with my emotion for my brother, and my desire to focus on God.
If you have understood my question, or even feel the need to address anything else, please do.
Thank you again,
Tasha Lore'e.
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tasha February 24, 2014
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Oh Boy
My friend is a wonderful man of God. I met him almost a year ago at bible study on base where we work. We are both in the military. He and I connected immediately. Everything between us was Godly and good and right. We started to be tempted physically… show more »
My friend is a wonderful man of God. I met him almost a year ago at bible study on base where we work. We are both in the military. He and I connected immediately. Everything between us was Godly and good and right. We started to be tempted physically and never crossed into anything that was close to fornication, but as we all know, everything leads to that. We knew we cared about each other, and we never had to say a single word to each other about feelings or future plans between us because we both had the mutual understanding that we were watching and observing each other for future mates.
However, as we became closer and closer, we just naturally wanted to hug and hold each other and wrestle for fun and joke around. I knew what it was doing to me and my emotional attachment. We had standards of our own that matched up, but we slowly let them slip. Three times I had talked to him face to face, embarrassed, seriously telling him that everything we do and say to each other gives me hope and when we hug or hold hands it causes attachment and hope on my end. Also making it clear that God had been convicting me about our physical closeness. We still hadn't made it official yet if we were courting because according to him, he didn't know what God wanted.
Later on, I found out that there is a girl back home. WHO has absolutely no interest in him over the last seven years that he's been pursuing her. He finally told me that he believes he's supposed to marry this girl because God told him to pursue her. He wants to marry me, but can not disobey God. He did what Gideon did in the bible- at age 15 using paper with initials of all the girls in his class and only did it one time instead of twice like Gideon. The initials that were dry in the morning were the initials of this girl. When I came along last year, he decided to call her to end his pursuing and pursue me instead-without telling me. Finally, we went too far for either of us. We decided to separate aggressively. We did and since January 28th, I have grown so immensely again in my walk with God. Our sin is disgusting to me as it was even when we were in the midst of it. He and I have found peace between us after a long, hard road of recovery and reconciliation. Every day seems to get better and more at peace and God-glorifying. But I still find myself falling for him every once in a while. He is an incredible man of God who walks in biblical statutes. It pains me to think that we came so close to courting. But I know that God had to step in. We have rebounded where others probably would not have been able to and I've grown in ways I can't describe and I am "preparing" as best I can. I think I may be missing something and I need someone to tell me the way it is. Any suggestions?
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kingsdaughter7 February 24, 2014
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Don’t Know What to Do…help, Please?
Hey everyone 🙂 So.. here’s a little background information. There’s this guy at our youth group who started coming to your church a couple months ago. He’s about 18. He’s really a GREAT guy, friends with everyone and he’s growing in his faith. He is my best guy friend. BUT!, I don’t consider him… show more »
Hey everyone :) So.. here's a little background information. There's this guy at our youth group who started coming to your church a couple months ago. He's about 18. He's really a GREAT guy, friends with everyone and he's growing in his faith. He is my best guy friend. BUT!, I don't consider him any more than a friend. There is someone who likes him (obviously) and it seems as though she doesn't want me around him because then there might be something more between us? I guess she didn't get as much attention before now and since he's nice to her as well, she might think he likes her. But really, he's nice to everyone and I have a feeling he likes someone else from somewhere else. I really enjoy being around him because he's loads of fun but if I feel like I'm in the "way" of someone than I feel as though I shouldn't be around him anymore. Do I leave him alone... completely? a little? not at all? It seems all the girls are stuck. Some don't want to be his friend because then they might get feelings for him, some don't like his personality, but most of them like him and want to hang out with him. And like me, most of the girls are feeling pretty lonely because of this. Our youth group has really changed. One of the older girls has talked to me about it and mentioned that we should maybe have a sharing group (with just us girls) and bring this all completely to the open because it hasn't yet. Of course, he wouldn't be there. Is this a good idea? Should one of the married ladies be with us? I'm really confused about all of this so ANY answer is appreciated. Whatever your thought is, PLEASE put it down... we really want our youth girls to be closer like it used to be. Thanks in advance! :) :) God bless!
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maidenfaire February 24, 2014
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Has Anyone Read “fascinating Womanhood?”
I’m wondering, has anyone read “Fascinating Womanhood” be Helen Andelin, and what did you think of it?
It has many of the same Biblical trues as Debi Pearl’s book, in that you must be in submission to your husband, however, it was written by a Mormon.
I'm wondering, has anyone read "Fascinating Womanhood" be Helen Andelin, and what did you think of it?
It has many of the same Biblical trues as Debi Pearl's book, in that you must be in submission to your husband, however, it was written by a Mormon.
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argirl February 24, 2014
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I Should Help out More Around the House, but It Seems There is Always Something Better to Do. Any Tips?
I live with a big family. My Mom works and my Dad is gone most of the time trying to make money at little jobs. We also have a big house because there is so many of us. The problem is that sometimes we can be a bit messy…. show more »
I live with a big family. My Mom works and my Dad is gone most of the time trying to make money at little jobs. We also have a big house because there is so many of us. The problem is that sometimes we can be a bit messy. Whenever My mom comes home from a hard day at work she expects supper on the table and a somewhat clean house, which I don't blame her. My question is, do you have any tips to help me want to clean more? It can get frustrating that no one will help me pick up for her most of the time. I'll appreciate your help!(:
-Argirl
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