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What is this website all about?

Centered around Debi Pearl’s book, Preparing To Be A Help Meet, the purpose of this website is to help answer any questions you have about the book, personality types, marriage and marriage preparation, meeting the right person, etc.

You can find answers, learn about the book, meet the author, and more!

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happykoalakatie I would say to keep your conversation on the Lor…
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April 17, 2014
How to Prepare to Marry a Command Man

Hi there,

I am a servant girl with a tad bit of visionary. I am looking for ways that I can prepare to marry a kingly man. I could use any suggestions. Thanks!!

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Sarah Lee
April 17, 2014
Magazine for Christian Girls

Hi Ladies,

My family publishes a quarterly magazine for Christian young ladies, called “The King’s Blooming Rose,” (http://kingsbloomingrose.com) which contains articles, personal testimonies, poems, pen-pal ads, and much more. Yesterday, I was talking with Shalom (she is so sweet!), and she suggested I share the information for KBR with you… show more »

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March 13, 2014
Homeschool Alumni

Are any of you on the Homeschooling Alumni? I just joined and am already enjoying meeting more homeschoolers and fellow believers!
For those of you who haven’t seen it yet, here’s the link: http://www.homeschoolalumni.org/index.php

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March 4, 2014
Cultivating Friendship

At 23 years of age, I am in a relationship with a Christian man with whom I have been acquainted for a year. We realize the importance of basing our relationship on sound communication and friendship. May I hear some stories of how you developed these before and after marriage?

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February 24, 2014
How Do I Wait and Honour the Lord Through My Waiting?

Hi there! To make a long story short, for the past few months God showed me clearly the boy He wants me to marry to. We talked about it and he is sure that i am the girl for him too. Fact is, I am 18 and still a… show more »

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February 24, 2014
Meek and Quiet Spirit

Thank you for offering us the chance to ask questions. I don’t normally do this, but I see the wisdom in asking. I am between a rock and a hard place. I wish we could sit and I could explain this story to you detail after detail. I remember… show more »

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February 24, 2014
Oh Boy

My friend is a wonderful man of God. I met him almost a year ago at bible study on base where we work. We are both in the military. He and I connected immediately. Everything between us was Godly and good and right. We started to be tempted physically… show more »

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February 24, 2014
Don’t Know What to Do…help, Please?

Hey everyone 🙂 So.. here’s a little background information. There’s this guy at our youth group who started coming to your church a couple months ago. He’s about 18. He’s really a GREAT guy, friends with everyone and he’s growing in his faith. He is my best guy friend. BUT!, I don’t consider him… show more »

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February 24, 2014
Has Anyone Read “fascinating Womanhood?”

I’m wondering, has anyone read “Fascinating Womanhood” be Helen Andelin, and what did you think of it?

It has many of the same Biblical trues as Debi Pearl’s book, in that you must be in submission to your husband,  however, it was written by a Mormon.

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February 24, 2014
I Should Help out More Around the House, but It Seems There is Always Something Better to Do. Any Tips?

I live with a big family. My Mom works and my Dad is gone most of the time trying to make money at little jobs. We also have a big house because there is so many of us. The problem is that sometimes we can be a bit messy…. show more »

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Personality Types?


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