There is this guy of which is a very potential husband. Recently I went to nanny some of my cousins, my aunt and I were talking one night and I told her about “the guy”. She gave her opinions and after that talk, I kept questioning myself, should he still be a potential? Her opinions are of what she was raised to believe. For example, you two can live together and get married whenever you want, when you get married your life (figuratively speaking) ends. The opinion that set me to questioning the guy as potential was this: “There will be so many guys that you will think are ‘the ones’ and many girls at your age are so emotional.” Should I hold stock in her opinion when I do not agree with her beliefs?