I am writing because i want to understand what is Gods will on an issue i have in my marriage. I am a born again lady married to a not born again man. I was in another relationship before and we separated but left with a daughter, like wise my hubby was in a relationship and left with a son who lives with his mum. Well we married and have been together for 6yrs now. I must say it has been well though i was diagnosed with cancer three years ago, have had chemo , radio and name it all sort of chemo side effects have had them. All this has not made my faith in God fade. It has been well. My relationship with my hubby is good and having read created to be his help meet i must say it has become wonderful.He is a wonderful man.
However my hubby suffered while he was a child ( his father left them and he didn’t experience fatherly love) So he feels like life has not been fair because when he thought he would give his whole love to the son, that’s when he divorced and even though he gives love to the daughter we have he still feels like he needs to have a child who he can bring up with all this love he has. In my condition its a bit sensitive because according to the doctor my fertility has been compromised and he also thinks its not good for it would be very risky for me to try and get a child again. My hubby has insisted that he wants a child and he has hinted several times that we should look for a surrogate mother to carry his eggs so that he can have a child .( Only when he is drunk) I strongly feel God is telling me NO but i dont know how to approach him and face him on this. I know God wants us to obey our husbands except where they go aganist his will. I know God is the giver of life and he has a reason for my life as it is. I would like to hear from my fellow sisters. God bless.